Identity crisis is usually discussed in relation to teenagers. But a 10-year-old child also asks important questions: "Who am I?", "What is my place in the class?", "Am I cool or a loser?". This is a pre-adolescent crisis related to the beginning of separation from parents and entering the world of peers. We tell you about the symptoms and ways to help.Where Do Doubts Come FromAt 10 years old, a child's world expands. There are idols from TikTok, authorities from class. The child compares himself to others: "I don't have an iPhone, so I'm poor," "I can't play football, so I'm a wimp." Also, physiological changes (the beginning of puberty) come into play: some have grown, while others are still small.Symptoms of Identity CrisisThe child tries on different roles: today he's a goth, tomorrow a sportsman. He often changes hobbies, friends, and clothing style. He's afraid of looking silly, and he conforms to the majority (for example, listens to the same music as everyone). He's shy around his parents with friends and is highly sensitive to criticism. He may lie about himself (make up a rich biography).What Parents Can DoDon't mock his interests, even if "it will pass." Expand his circle of "experiments": take him to different clubs, allow him to try new things. Support him when he brags, but don't expose him. Don't label him: "You're our humanist," "You're always a nerd." Tell him about your own childhood doubts.Important: an identity crisis at 10 years old is normal. If it drags on until 12 years old and is accompanied by depression, it's worth consulting a psychologist.